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Shakespeare in the news

“To be or not to be?”

We shall be talking later in the program to Hamlet, prince of Denmark about his crisis of conscience. Also on tonight’s show:-

“A horse, a horse - my kingdom for a horse!”

What would have had we ask, if Richard the Third had got his wish? Would it radically have changed our perception of the past and our direction in the future? Stayed tuned as discuss this with experts.

“The ides of March have come soothsayer.”

“Aye Caesar but not gone.”

If Julius Caesar had listened to and acted upon these prophetic words, would he still be here today?

“But soft, what light from yonder window shines? Tis the east and Juliet is the sun!”

Star-crossed lovers. Professor Brian Johnston discusses the difficulty of relationships, in a cold climate of hatred and suspicion. We compare the situation of the Montagues and Capulets with another well known set of feuding families, the Hatfields and McCoys, later in the show.

“There are more things in heaven and Earth.”

We talk to noted parapsychologist, Erwin Rommel, about the possibility of life after death.

“Out, out damned Spot!”

The problems of raising a puppy. Much ado about nothing? We ask Lady McBeth her opinion.

In the Desdemona murder case, police are anxious to locate the chief suspect’s best friend. If you have any information about the whereabouts of a gentleman named Iago, please get in touch with Crime Stoppers on the usual number.

Talking of crime, we are into the third day of the trial, of Shylock versus Antonio, the former requiring his pound of flesh for a substantial debt owed to him. We are now going over live to the courthouse, where our court reporter Simon Jones is listening to the plaintiff, summing up his argument.

“If you prick us, do we not bleed? If you tickle us, do we not laugh? If you poison us, do we not die? And if you wrong us, do we not revenge?”

Powerful stuff! More on this in tomorrow’s program.

Late news: a ship has been lost off the coast of Italy, carrying the King of Naples and the ex-duke of Milan. Search and rescue are not hopeful of finding survivors but there is a faint chance that they might find landfall on a small island reputed to exist in the vicinity.

That rounds up all the news we have for you today. My colleague, Justin Hayward, will keep you updated through the night in bulletins, on developments in these and other stories but from me and the team here in the studio, it’s goodnig

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Friday is my no chores rest day

Or it's supposed to be. I might put my clothes in the bag and get it ready for Sunday. That's if my body stops acting up and behaves.

I'm making myself a pot of coffee. I'll mix it with mud wtr and salted caramel syrup and oat milk like I always do. I think I need new flavors of coffee. I should probably go simple and get a French vanilla or caramel macchiato. I've been getting complex flavors for years. But sometimes simple things are wonderful.

I'm getting 5 packages in the mail today. I love getting packages. It feels like Christmas. I'll share pictures of what I am getting. It's very exciting.

Oh yeah. I made progress last weekend. My girlfriend was out camping with her boyfriend and I didn't have FOMO. I forgot to post that. I talked with my therapist yesterday and he reminded me about it and said he was proud of me.

My ex girlfriend... I haven't talked to her in almost a week. She was rude to me and I was just like well ok be a bitch I don't need to stick my hands in a beehive. I'm letting her fail on her own. I tried helping her and she did fuck all to help herself. I'm closing that chapter of my life. It is sad but it was inevitable.

I've been playing with Meta AI. I got some really nice pictures of an aardwolf puppy. I've also gotten some really good advice with health and relationship support.

#CheckInWithMe

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FP lost her BPDP

Realizing almost a year later that I was indeed his FP. The fights that happened monthly got more intense each month. Now I wonder if I should have just not went the last time from the last fight? Would he still be here? Would he have held someone else at gunpoint? Who would have been so violently assaulted? Who would he have stood less than 3 feet away from and pulled the trigger? What could I have done. Now I’m at the point I wish he would have taken me first because the vast amount of punishment mentally I’ve went through is indescribable. Are there BPD/FP relationships that actually do make it??? I need to know more, please #pleasereadwithcaution #FPLOST HERBPDP

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Utterly depressed #GeneralizedAnxietyDisorder #OppositionalDefiantDisorder #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #BipolarDisorder #CheckInWithMe

Right now I’m just so depressed 😔 I earnestly believe in the Lord Jesus Christ and the Bible! It says true happiness can only be found in Christ Jesus ! I need my relationship with God to be better and I need to be more obedient to his teachings! I’m just so depressed because like someone stupid I depended on people and things to make me happy and in doing so I again realized that depending upon people or materialistic things to make you happy is absolutely ludicrous because they will let you down every time! And yet I find myself dependent upon them when I know full well to trust and obey God and depend entirely upon Him!! So why am I so stupid and foolish??

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Depressed #GeneralizedAnxietyDisorder #OppositionalDefiantDisorder #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #Depression #CheckInWithMe

I’m just feeling so depressed 😔 right now and I just want things to get better in my life! I honestly don’t know what to do anymore to come out of this depression I’m in? I’m lost 😞 and don’t know how to feel better ❤️‍🩹 I’m trying to stay positive but it’s not helping I honestly don’t know in what direction to go in? I have literally laid down most of the day! I know I should have been reading 📖 my Bible but I was so depressed 😔 that I didn’t feel like it! I just don’t know what to do? Like right now I feel like everything is just off like something and everything is just wrong with me and I don’t know how to deal with it! I don’t know exactly how to explain what I’m trying to say here! It just feels as my life is off track like a bicycle 🚲 chain ⛓️‍💥 that’s off track that’s the best way I know how to describe it!? Also I had a thought about my ex wife or soon to be ex wife and I don’t know 🤷‍♂️ why I have no desire to think about her at all I don’t even know why that thought creeped in ?? Yet I feel like something in my life is missing?? I honestly loathe this feeling right now I believe I know what is missing in my life my relationship with Jesus Christ is definitely not where it needs to be that’s part of it and the fact that I’m used to being in a relationship and I am missing that as well not wanting my wife back because I don’t want her back I want to replace her is what I truly want so that I can be whole again and feel like my life is complete by having my relationship with Christ and a Godly woman that’s exactly what I need to lift my spirit and feel whole again because right now I feel incomplete and depressed

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I completed my chore today

I filled 4 bags of trash and took them plus one cardboard box to the dumpster today. It took 2 trips. My back really hurts now. But I'm very proud of myself. The only task left for the day is to take my night meds before 10pm. I'm so proud of how focused I have been the last 5 days. I want to make her proud of me. And I want her to feel proud of being with me. I'm not perfect but I love with all I've got. #CheerMeOn #Relationships

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A step in the right direction

So today in individual therapy I brought up the most toxic relationship, I have in my life.
The relationship to my ex.
My boys dad.
I have avoided bringing it up because it is the biggest can of worms, I have.
But I also began to have a feeling, that I couldn't keep putting it off.
It has so monumental influences on my life.
And I was triggered.
So I did it.
Now I have some new things to try the next time he triggers me.
Which will probably be this afternoon, when he picks up the kids.
I need to ever so slowly but surely start to transform how he makes me feel.
No doubt, I will fail many times.
But as always: we get points for trying!!
#MightyTogether
#Support
#MentalHealth
#BorderlinePersonalityDisorder
#AvoidantPersonalityDisorder
#Depression
#Anxiety
#Burnout
#HighlysensitivePerson
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Cheating and anxiety

Me and my husband have been together for 9 years and have been married for 4 years. I just found out that my husband was cheating on me before he proposed to me (He proposed October 2020) up until when he got back from deployment (January 2021). So he was cheating on me June 2020-January 2021. He’s also did some sneaky/disrespectful things when he got back from deployment. For example, he came back from a boys trip and I noticed that he had taken me off of his locked screen. He swore nothing happened past flirting, but I had a bad feeling and this was the first time that I didn’t trust him. So I started going through his phone when he was sleep and of course I found more and more stuff. I later found out about a girl he slept with while I was literally in the hospital for having severe anxiety attacks. He deleted all the messages so I couldn’t get the full story and I tried to move on but I had a gut feeling ever since that there was more.

A couple days ago, he let me use his phone and he fell sleep. His phone was cleaned out. Everything but whatsapp. I then find messages between him and a different girl from Kansas City that I met before. He was stationed there while I finished graduate school. He was sleeping with this girl for it seems like about a year. The messages were on whatsapp because he was deployed. Mind you, this is after we got married (December 2020). They were sexting and sharing pictures and videos, reminiscing on their sex, talking about their relationships and giving advice to each other, he was telling her about how much he was dreaming of her, how attracted he was to her, talking and laughing about tricking me into a 3some with them and acting like they don’t talk, talking on the phone with each other, planning to meets ups when he got back and using code on Instagram to communicate and set things up. He proposed to me and literally slept with her days later. He married me and literally sexted her days later. He took me to this girls house when I visited him in Kansas City. He had me around this girl going out and everything knowing he was sleeping with her. He talked to her about the other girls that he was sleeping with that he also introduced me to and told her he wish he would have slept with her sooner so that he wouldn’t have slept with those other girls.

I literally don’t know what to do. I feel like I have been played for our entire relationship. I’m so embarrassed. I feel so stupid and played and disrespected. He keeps apologizing and saying how childish and egotistical he was and saying we should get counseling to move forward. Everything is complicated now because I just gave birth to our babygirl. Apart of me wants to stay because I love him and apart of me wants to go. Idk what to do. I’m not in a good place. I can’t stop thinking about the things he did and how much he disrespected me. I have anxiety and I can’t stop crying and I’m having some symptoms of an anxiety attack. I’m thinking of going to the hospital because I believe I’m going to have an attack soon especially since I’m stuck in the house with my newborn. What do I do?

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